I feel like these two questions are interrelated (at least for me) so I’m going to try to tackle them in one post. When I thought about my long term goals, these questions inevitably rose up in my mind. And because I love that feeling of opening a journal and finding a blank page and then covering it in ink, I started writing a few lists.
What do I value? (not in any specific order)
- independence and me-time (to create, to think, to just be content)
- time in nature
- exercise/physical fitness
- eating food that is good for me
- my animals (and all the other animals out there)
- writing and being able to express myself creatively
I just noticed something – money doesn’t show up in that list. Hmmmmm
But now here is the list of why I save:
- so I can buy a tiny house to provide shelter for myself and my furbabies
- so I can buy some land on which to put my tiny house
- to be able to write more often and eventually be able to be more of my own boss
- so I never have to face my phobia of being homeless
- so I won’t have to work for the rest of my life and can eventually retire
Yes, I have a phobia (or very strong fear) of being homeless. And living in Albuquerque, there are reminders of this possibility at so many intersections, with people holding signs asking for money or food. I think the fear goes back to my early childhood, when my parents got divorced and our income was so drastically reduced at the drop of a hat. It’s a fear that came back full-force when I thought of leaving my husband back in 2010, and ultimately did. I think it’s a fear I will always have somewhere in the back of my mind. But it’s a fear that also helps to reinforce to me what I do value and why I save money with every paycheck.
What do you value? And why do you save? Do you see the two as being interrelated?
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